2005-11
25

FANS的心意

By xrspook @ 18:33:00 归类于: 烂日记

中国的FANS有多么之疯狂看来应该是没有什么地方的人不知道,但对于大多数中国FANS的追随是麻木的,没有理性,单纯的疯狂,到底他们要崇拜偶像的什么?回答可能是:……然后,他帅!或她靓女!更无稽的回答应该是“因为别人追,所以我也追(跟风,随大流,我最不喜欢此类人)”。大多家禽都患禽流感了,要被杀掉,你为什么就不患,也去被屠夫杀掉?

今天翻译了2个文章2004年JEA的生日礼物亲爱的朋友们:)正如2005年11月25blogger post中自己写的一样:

“二者(就是那两个翻译的文章)是前因后果的关系,内容是关于去年2004年,玛莎组织粉丝们以JEA的名义向联合国儿童基金会捐款的事。”

知道JEA的FANS们为了庆祝Jorge Enrique Abello 2004和2005年的生日他们做了什么吗?他们也许有把小礼物送到哥伦比亚,但更多更多,绝大部分他们都以JEA的名义把买礼物,买飞机票,买船费的钱都捐赠了给UNICEF!!!当香港的那些汪明荃的FANS还为她庆祝生日搞个大派对,送她不知多少卡的钻石项链,不知多少斤的金砖或项链做生日礼物的时候,彼岸的他们选择了做善事。我孤陋寡闻,我不知道世界上还有多少偶像的FANS会选择如此的方式为他们的偶像庆祝生日。虽然这听起来有点是故意向他们的偶像脸上贴金,他们的捐款好像有点是碍于某人的面子,不是100%真心诚意,但这总比只把偶像的家里塞下用货车才装得下的礼物好。FANS们给JEA的礼物是精神上的是名誉上的,而远不是我们普通见的那些物质上的,表面上的。既然送什么礼物给偶像都是有点那个的,我宁愿FANS把钱拿去做善事,这样做一举N得。

而我觉得FANS们主动把那些钱捐到慈善机构比他们把钱送给偶像,再由偶像拿出多少出来捐到慈善机构好。我们不是要把钱转圈玩游戏。

FANS们主动捐款到UNICEF而不捐到其他慈善机构其中一个很重要的原因是JEA是是2004年的UNICEF大使,所以他们就“食住个势”,大干一场。我相信,他们知道了他们的“好心”已经造成了影响已经赢得了社会的好评和偶像的关注,他们一定会继续下去的!我不知道他们会维持多少年,但起码2006年,他们一定会那么做!!!

我记得不知什么时候我也曾经些过文章称赞过那些FANS的行为,但很不幸,我忘记了我到底放那里了。他们用这些方式来为偶像庆祝生日不好吗,其实我也在Sat, 24 Jan 2004 22:48:42 -0600的时候也收到了他们向各个Fan Club的成员发送说他们要以这种方式庆祝2004年JEA生日的邮件,内容如下:

主题:Regalo de Cumpleaños para Jorge Enrique Abello / Birth day gift for Jorge Enrique Abello

(说明一下,西文和英文说的是一件事,就是说他们要以这种捐款方式庆祝JEA生日的事)

西文:
Se participe en el regalo de cumpleaños para Jorge Enrique.
Es tiempo de demostrar nuestra admiración y cariño hacia Jorge Enrique y que mejor dándole un regalo del corazón , la idea es hacer una aportación a la UNICEF Colombia en su nombre y en la que Jorge Enrique , gracias a su calidad humana y a su gran compromiso social ha sido nombrado AMIGO DE LA UNICEF.

Las aportaciones se pueden realizar:
Haciendo una consignación en la cuenta de UNICEF (Colombia) 0012 70 30 31 del CitiBank ( Bogotá Colombia) y enviar el recibo de consignación por fax al 57 1 3210620
Llamando al Call Center, desde cualquier parte del mundo, 01 8000 9191 866 y autorizar un aporte ya sea a través de la tarjeta de crédito o débito.

Creemos que Jorge Enrique se sentirá muy identificado con este regalo y que mejor oportunidad para ayudar a todos aquellos angelitos que Dios ha puesto en la Tierra y que necesitan nuestra ayuda, no importa la cantidad de dinero que se aporte, lo importante es el fin para el que serán utilizadas cada una de las gotitas de amor para estos niños.

Si es posible para todas aquellas personas que den su aportación nos reenvíen el recibo de consignación o nos envíen sus datos con el monto de su aportación antes del 20 de Febrero, para que sus nombres sean incluidos en la tarjeta que enviaremos a Jorge Enrique con motivo de su cumpleaños.

Gracias por su participación.

contacto@jorgeenriqueabellofanclub.com

英文:
Join Us in a SPECIAL Birthday Gift for Jorge Enrique Abello
DEADLINE: February 20, 2004

It’s time to show our admiration and affection for Jorge Enrique, and what better way than with a gift from the heart. The plan is to make a donation to UNICEF (Colombia) in his name. Jorge Enrique, because of his great love and commitment to the welfare of the children of Colombia, has been named as a FRIEND OF UNICEF. It’s very easy to make a donation:

You can make a deposit to UNICEF’s CitiBank Account, 0012 70 30 31, and forward the deposit slip to UNICEF Colombia’s headquarters at 57 1 321 0620.

Or, even easier, you can make a free call to their Call Center, from anywhere in the world, at their number 01 8000 9191 866 and authorize a contribution with your debit or credit card.

We know that Jorge Enrique will be touched by this gift, and what better time than now to help these children, no matter how big or small the contribution. What matters is that the donations will be used for their benefit and care.

If you decide to make a contribution, please send us your name and the amount of the donation so that we can include it in a special birthday card we will send to Jorge Enrique.

Thanks for your participation!!

contacto@jorgeenriqueabellofanclub.com

很不幸,我有心无力,只能精神上支持。但总有一年,当我能靠自己的力量赚钱以后,我会加入他们的行列的!

FANS们的心意我理解,我们的这种送礼观念,我推崇!!!

2005-11
8

教出来的集体主义感

By xrspook @ 18:35:28 归类于: 烂日记

到了大学,发觉原来其他人的集体主义感是如此的低下,于是就试着找原因。然后发觉自己的集体主义感是被培养出来的,是从小学、初中、高中一路被培养起来的。幸好我的老师都是些集体主义感的人,虽然他们在某些方面不是很厉害,甚至说在他们的教书范围,他们有时是乱七八糟,不成样子,但他们都有颗非常注重集体的心。于是自己就在不知不觉之中受到熏陶。

小孩子没有什么抗拒心理。特别我是家里的独生,别人以为我一定会娇生惯养,但实际上,爸妈就为你决定好一切。你没需要选择,当你还没有学会“不”之前他们已经为你准备好一切了。所以,你需要做就是服从。当年的服从并不痛苦,因为你还不会怎么决定。不象很多小孩,我基本上不会说不!既来之,则安之原来是我孩提时候的真实写照。

第一次接触集体生活,是在幼儿园。开始的时候很怕去幼儿园,也不知道为什么。一个小孩到一个完全陌生的地方又怎么可以不怕。而且在那里就要守一些在家里不用守的规矩,比如在上课的时候不能随心所欲地跑来跑去。我还记得小小班的时候,我回家告诉我妈“我都闷死了,我的PP都坐得快要生疮了!!!!”当然那只是小孩子的真心话,没有经过修饰,想到什么就说什么。但和孩子们相处久了,发觉自己这个独生喜欢和他们在一起。虽然在一起的时候可能会有抢玩具的情况出现,但绝大多数时候我们都和睦相处,和别人一起快乐比自己一个人玩有趣多了。

幼儿园的老师首先给我集体观的启蒙是“一只筷子容易折断,一捆筷子就很难折断了”。

小学,和同学在一起的时间甚至多于父母。在那个对知识极端渴求的时代,每一堂课都是个向未知世界发出的挑战,天天都在渴望,对于那些自己连做梦都想不到的东西觉得1000/100的神奇。小学时候的集体,自己的印象是很模糊的。但有一点我十分清晰,就是在评文明班的时候集体和个人就极端的明显了。还记得以前评文明班里有个经典的项目——“开火车”(one by one)背《新三字经》或《三字歌》,当校长来检查的时候一个背不出来就大问题了。

小学给我的集体主义观是“一颗老鼠屎搞坏一锅粥”。我们不能做那个老鼠屎,我尽量使自己是成为为那锅粥喷香的东西,我们不要做老鼠屎。我们一个人的误差会导致这个集体的荣誉受损,我担当不起那个罪过,所以,我尽量使自己不那么做。

初中,集体主义尤为明显。因为学校不好,风气不好,但他们还有一点是比那些好的学校或者一般的学校好的地方。他们有哥们义气!哥们义气也许不好,但在某个程度上比那些个人主义好多了。还记得初一的时候,有节地理课那些捣蛋王把身怀六甲的地理老师气走了。于是班主任给我们的惩罚就是那天晚上我们整个班要罚坐一起看月光(那天刚好是星期五)!的确,气走地理老师的就是那么不到5个捣蛋鬼,但罚的是全班。我这个一向品行良好的人开始的时候觉得好冤枉,于是一些没有“做坏事”的女同学就去问班主任为什么她们也要一起受罚(我没有问)。班主任生气地说:“你是不是4班的,是4班的人破坏规矩,4班的所有人都要一起承担,只要你是4班的人,你就要受罚!”听了那一段话以后,我真的对集体这个词语的理解仿佛又高了一个层次。

初中使我明白到:自己不给集体抹黑这是一个人应该做到的,我们个人也要一起承受集体的罪过,除了有福齐享以外,我们更重要的是要做到有难同当。只要我们是这个集体的一分子,我们都有义务承担集体中任何人带给我们的痛苦。没有任何的借口,没有任何的解释,我们的同当是无条件的。这也是我到此为止被教育到最最深沉的集体。

现在人们老是在强调为集体增光,那当集体被抹黑的时候呢?我们依然要共同承受。

高中,发觉同学的智慧是高了,而且知识水平明显比那些初中的哥们高了好多好多,但他们的集体主义观念反倒不如初中的哥们。于是老师在校运会的时候下了一条铁的命令“所有人都不允许在校运会期间请假”!钻石般硬的硬性规定!只有这样才能维护那么一年才那么一次的集体活动大家可以全体参加。

大学,简直觉得有点惨不忍睹了。大家都是自由,没有了任何的约束,自己想怎样就怎样。集体虽然不停地强调,但真正能融入集体的人就屈指可数,更多更多的人是置之不理。昨天,我突然意识到原来我现在的支书是很为大家着想的,在工作和娱乐之间,他努力地找到平衡点。我真的很想支持他的工作,但每想到同学们的经典反应,你就如跳进了冰河一般的冰冷啊!于是你的潜意识告诉你,无论你多么的用心,你是不会有正比的回报的。

大学生,经过那么多年的集体教育。我的教育教出了这个个我,而他们呢?他们的老师又教出了个什么的学生?大学需要的是自觉,但他们从前根本就没有形成个习惯,你叫他们如何自觉?觉什么?好疑惑啊!

今天晚上回来的时候,一个人,没有月光,但想起了就是在差不多的秋夜,和初中的哥们儿一起罚坐看月光。还记得嘴里西瓜味的醒目饮料的味道。那时脑子里一片的空白,经过老师的那一段话以后,我觉得自己有责任一起罚,我身为班的一分子但却没有阻止到班里罪恶的发生,我即使没有犯,但我也是罪有应得。我是班长啊!这个什么班长!班长除了有超人的忍耐能力以外,我还要运用权力去管啊!管不住他们我也有罪……

太多,太多了,想得太多太多了,我时候结束了……

2005-11
3

Authorization

By xrspook @ 12:39:00 归类于: 论尽

Authorization, it's an important thing we must obey on internet. Provided we have found some information from other websites and use it in ours, we must leave the address the original website. It's a simple thing but very important. And do it is very easy, however, if you forget to make such mark you will get trouble.

When I was a freshman of internet surfer, I ignore those kinds of authorization, but now, I have realized the necessary of it We are not just do it as we like, moreover we must do it without and hesitate. Because not everyone can stand his/her productions appear anywhere without writing his/her name on it. They mind it very much, so before we use their production we must inform his/her. Not before getting his/her permission, we can't use it freely in public, complete with your own website or public in any other website and paper. Although I don't care if my work was published without my authorization, yet not everybody likes me. If I found my words in someplace I will also very surprise, but I won't annoy anyone, yet I will still feel something uncomfortable. Think about myself, I can understand of other authors. So I respect others authorization when publishing some information in internet.

Maybe you won't understand why I say this, and now I give you the example which just happened yesterday in this website: http://jorgeenriqueabello.net/foro/viewtopic.php?t=347 (The original website is in Spanish, you can translate it into English by this: http://www.freetranslation.com/free/web.htm ) Katerina Anhel published a new post in that forum to inform us that she had put the videos in her website. And the author of the video who is also the owner of that forum replied Katerina Anhel that she (Katerina Anhel) had done something that overpassed her (Martha) authorization. Because the videos were made by Martha, and she had put them in http://www.jorgeenriqueabello.net/GaleriadeVideos.htm . though Katerina Anhel has put the videos in her own place: http://jorgeeabello.fanklub.hu/tvmusorok.html yet she still devalued Martha’s work. From here we know, some authors very mind of their authorization. I don't mean that it's not good for them to protect their own rights, they very justify. If we didn't want to get any trouble, we just need to put the original address in the page you publish, that's all.

Katerina Anhel and some friends in Hungary maybe have the same habits as me in some aspects, such as I translate the some Spanish essays into Chinese and they translate those essays into Hungarian. Now I'm very taking care of the addresses of original resource, though I do the translation, and the characters of the essays are different from the original one, I will also put the address at the head of my work to show the original authorization. However, after reading many essays from some Hungarian friends’ website, it seemed they still didn't form the habits of leaving the original address. A lot of Spanish friends had reminded them time to time, however, they seem still. I didn't want to blame anyone; nevertheless I still think taking care of others authorization is very important, we can't ignore it. Ignore it is not right! We must respect others just as others respect us.

I did a foolish thing yesterday, so I feel a little guilty now. It seemed I had done something to go along with Katerina Anhel and her great job. Because I really didn't know Martha had put those videos in her website before. Because of my incaution, I behaved very silly. So sorry, I didn't mean to. I think the God will forgive my ignorance, and hope she will forgive me too.

Authorization is important in anywhere, we must respect others anytime.

2005-10
29

JEA的一激战场面

By xrspook @ 22:00:00 归类于: 论尽
2005-09
3

Education In China (publish on weekend)

By xrspook @ 0:38:24 归类于: 想当年的作业

There are lots of differences between China and foreign countries, complete with culture, economy and personal psychology. So Chinese education should learn from foreign good principles and make some that adjust to the nowday situation in China.

It's known to all that Chinese education is using "quality education" principle. But does it really work? In fact, the academic achievement still means "all quality". In short, people just realize the important of IQ, but pay little attention to the EQ's development.

After known the principles about parents and teachers at Hyde School, I think at this point, we should learn from them. We really overlook the communication among parents to parents. In China, we're carrying out the birth control, as a result, maybe most of families just have a child. In my opinion, the parents without many teaching experience, so they must exchange more with others, share their idea of how to guide the children.

Secondly, Chinese education system have to improve its principles of students. Because the students are the only child of their families, consequently, more or less they will be selfish and don't know how to concern others. This will directly affect the development of their EQ. I'm personally thinking that a good method to improve this is group life. Let children live together, and the details fo daily life will change them bit by bit automatically. Of cours, during this process, teachers and parents should give them correct guidance. In a word, group life means to send students to boarding school not to enhance the hours at normal school. With too many "care" from parents, children can't grow up and stand by themselves. Group life can cultivate their teamwork spirit.

I deeply hope the Chinese education system can be improved. The thought fo "The point (academic achievement) is student's life" must be replaced. Beyond IQ, we also need high EQ, if we want to be a manager of the violent competing world.

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